Aug
05
Breast Cancer Patients Pay It Forward
Posted by The ClinicAid Team | 1 comments
Have you ever heard words like these from a friend or family member who is living with cancer?
“It’s really hard to ask for help. You want to be competent and independent. … And then, all of a sudden, you have to acknowledge the fact that you can’t take care of your daughter all by yourself.”
Just a year before turning 40, Judy Haley was diagnosed with an aggressive form of breast cancer that required an immediate mastectomy.
The procedure and the treatments that followed left her fatigued, nauseated and in so much pain that she couldn’t pick up her 1-year-old daughter or do simple household chores. She also struggled with depression because she needed constant child-care assistance.
Haley and her husband were both full-time students, so there were also financial concerns. The couple cashed in their retirement to deal with the crush of medical bills.
“I was really bottoming out emotionally,” Haley said.
That’s when a friend recommended that she reach out to the Bellevue, Washington based organization Pink Daisy Project, a nonprofit that provides support to breast cancer patients under 45.
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The Pink Daisy Project is founded by Debbie Cantwell, who was 41 when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2006. Since 2008, the Pink Daisy Project has helped more than 150 women — mostly in the form of house-cleaning assistance and gift cards for gas, groceries and restaurants. But as we all know, it’s so much more.
“You’re relatively healthy, and they tell you (that) you have a chance of dying. … It just throws your world upside down,” Cantwell explained.
Cantwell underwent surgery to remove both breasts and 20 lymph nodes. She received eight rounds of chemotherapy and 37 radiation treatments before undergoing breast reconstruction surgery. She blistered, bled, lost all her hair and continued to work full-time as a copywriter and the sole provider for her husband and two young children.
Throughout her treatment, however, Cantwell was supported by family, friends and co-workers who pitched in to help her with her daily responsibilities. Co-workers donated vacation and sick leave. Friends brought over meals and took on child-care duties. Relatives helped with mounting costs.
“I just felt so grateful that all these people in my life were there for me and made it manageable,” she said. “Once I was through with treatment, I couldn’t possibly pay everybody back. So I decided I was going to pay it forward.”
Currently, Cantwell fields grant requests through the website. Grants (average $400 in value) come from small fundraisers and personal donations, and are designed to cover a woman’s basic needs for about one month.
“Right now, the Pink Daisy Project is helping women in these small ways,” Cantwell said. “But eventually, I want to be able to help in larger ways with real practical, tangible things like helping with bills … helping with the rent, helping with medical payments. It’s so hard to focus on healing when you’ve got $12,000 in medical bills.”
The average age of women diagnosed with breast cancer in the United States is 61. But according to the Young Survival Coalition, there are more than 250,000 women living in the U.S. who were 40 or younger when diagnosed.
Words to Live by: Debbie Cantwell
“I don’t feel sorry for myself. I never have. I want to really make the most of the time I have by doing some good in the world. … And if the spirit of helping each other were to continue, I’d feel my efforts meant something.”
Just like Debbie, our friend who blogs under the name Peglove on HealthCentral.com is taking breast cancer by the horns and paying it forward by openly sharing her breast cancer experience. Read Peglove’s blog.
Words to Live by: Peglove
“Thriving is the operative action. It is not enough to breathe in and out–but at times, on chemo and radiation, the destruction of cells and weak blood – breathing was all you could do. It makes you think that it is all you can do, and that it will never end. But it does! It does end! And it is not wasted time, but time that the body needs to rebuild those cells in order for it to thrive again.”
(source: CNN Heros)
To learn more about the Pink Daisy Project, visit the website.
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With care,
The ClinicAid Team





























